I never knew there was such a thing as that(situationships) till I became a victim. In my very naive knowledge of relationships; it was simply, you are in a relationship, or out of a relationship or not in a relationship with a person. And now I have learnt that human relationships are not so simple after all and it's possible to be lost in-between - not actually knowing your status.
You see, both of you are officially not dating and somehow he has been evasive in that regard but unofficially you are a couple; attend functions together, talk for hours about everything and anything, you know him down to the colour of his boxers, you've got this special name for each other, the intimate touches, whispers of sweet nonsense, how much he likes you and how thoughts of you drive him crazy.
Hmm...you carry on and all your defences are melted. You fall in love with this guy and it's the real deal, yet the relationship goes on undefined. People talk, and soon enough your friends start blabbing and this time you pluck up courage to finally ask: 'Bae, what exactly are we doing?' And with a very straight face he tells you. "What are we doing how? We are just friends"
Just friends!! Tell me, won't you wanna kill that guy?!
Author: CherylB for Eric Mbogu's Blog.
Author: CherylB for Eric Mbogu's Blog.
